Balancing Work and … Work

by Ali on June 4, 2010

This is the second part in a series on balance. If you missed part one (Rethinking the Idea of Work/Life Balance), you might want to skip back and read that first.

Whether you love your job or hate it, there’s a good chance that you sometimes lack balance within your work. There are various symptoms of this, like stress, disorganisation, poor cash flow, working hard without really succeeding.

I want to look at three big areas where we often lean too far to one side in our working lives. These apply not just to paid employment but also to studying and to volunteering. They are:

  • Planning vs Doing
  • Big Picture vs Little Details
  • Today vs Tomorrow

Planning versus Doing

Most of us err on the side of doing a lot and not necessarily planning very well. If we do plan, we often create some elaborate roadmap or chart or timetable … which we promptly file and forget about, or which we implement for a few days before abandoning.

If “planning” is too cold a word for you and your work, try:

  • Brainstorming
  • Outlining
  • Daydreaming
  • Imagining
  • Vision

Planning is about thinking through what you’re going to do. It involves picking a direction and charting a course. If you were setting off on a journey, you’d do some planning: you’d get a decent map, you’d take the necessary provisions, you’d decide where you were heading.

Often, though, in our working lives, we just keep moving – not necessarily forwards! – without ever sitting back to take stock.

Some of us have the opposite problem, though. (And some of us even manage to swing wildly between the two extremes – I know I do at times!) We love to make business plans, come up with awesome ideas and daydream about how we’re going to change the world. The problem is, we never actually take any action. We never do anything.

Balancing Planning and Doing

  • If you’re a “doer” – schedule regular time to plan and daydream. You’ll always feel like you’re “too busy” – the truth is, the reason you’re too busy is because you don’t do this.
  • if you’re a “planner” – pick one of your plans or dreams, and figure out the first few steps. Set yourself a deadline. Don’t overthink it – just  start taking action.

Big Picture versus Little Details

Another area where we tend to lose our balance is when we get caught up in the tiny details. Perhaps we’re rushing along answering emails – when what we really need to be doing today is writing a report. Maybe we’re stressing out over getting that cool new feature of our software product working correctly – and ignoring the fact that there’s some huge usability flaw. I wrote about this problem as it relates to creative work in Your Creativity Zoom Lens over on Productive Flourishing:

Getting some distance means taking some time. Put aside everything you’ve done – the web copy you’ve written, the draft you’ve completed, the wireframe of the website, whatever it is – and just leave it. Let your project rest for as long as you can bear.

It’s very easy to get bogged down in the minutia of work and to lose sight of everything else that’s going on. It doesn’t necessarily mean we’re doing the wrong things … just getting over-focused on a particular area. For instance, maybe you’re fantastic at giving information to clients when you’re working on an active project, but you completely lose track of everyone else while that projects underway.

Alternatively, you might be great at seeing the big picture – but fuzzy on the details. You’ve got an ebook written and to you it’s perfect because it covers everything you wanted it to say. Unfortunately, it’s full of spelling mistakes, the font is hard to read, and you’ve accidentally left out a section. They’re little errors but they can create a bad first impression.

Balancing Big Picture and Little Details

  • If you’re a “big picture” person – don’t multitask. Focus on the one thing at hand, and get it complete. Then move on to the next step. Take enough time to get the details right.
  • If you’re a “little details” person – take a moment to jot down the outcome which you’re aiming for with a particular project. Assess whether the time you’re spending on tiny details is really worth it.

Today versus Tomorrow

Another area of work where we tend to balance too far in one direction is when it comes to chasing results today verses results tomorrow (well, in a month or two).

If we focus too much on today, we end up taking on work which gives instant results – but which isn’t the best long-term strategy. Maybe we tackle a lot of urgent but fairly unimportant tasks. Maybe we accept clients who aren’t a good fit, just because they’ll pay sooner. Or we work long hours to get everything done … storing up health problems for the future. We answer all our emails, but we don’t make any progress on that presentation we’re giving next month.

If we focus too much on tomorrow, we might run into cash flow problems. Yes, that great job will pay well in six months time … but we need money in the bank next week. Or perhaps we’re engaged in a lot of speculative work, like building up a Twitter presence or revamping our company’s website – and while this might be a good long-term strategy, it’s not helping us today. We go to seminars and conferences and meetings, while our emails and voicemails build up.

Either way, our work ends up out of balance. We find ourselves getting stressed out because nothing seems to go as smoothly as it should, or because we’re working long hours without getting very good results.

Balancing Today and Tomorrow

  • If you’re a “today” person – schedule some time each day or week for longer-term strategies: learning more about your field, taking a qualification, building up relationships with potential clients.
  • If you’re a “tomorrow” person – get a very clear idea about your bottom line, and make sure you’re meeting that. Don’t jump on every bandwagon which comes along – ask yourself whether it’s really going to pay off for your work.

What areas of your work do you find it difficult to balance? Got any tips – or any questions? The comments are open…

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Eduard @ People Skills Decoded June 4, 2010 at 3:14 pm

I think balancing doing and planning is a challenge for a lot of us because do to our personalities, we tend to naturally focus on one more than the other. Some of us are rather thinkers, other are rather action people. And what we need is to bring the right side of our personality out in every moment at work.

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Ali June 6, 2010 at 6:23 pm

I think *knowing* our personality helps – and recognising which way we tend to lean. (I’m great at getting over-excited at the planning stage, and tend to lack in energy for following through with actual action!)

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Icy Sedgwick June 4, 2010 at 3:14 pm

I’m loving this series, by the way. But yes, I agree that it’s often too easy to make hundreds of plans…and then never actually do anything because you’re too busy making plans, while at the same time it’s possible to be too busy doing everything that you never have time to plan doing anything else. It’s just always finding that happy middle ground between the two – and sticking to it.
Icy Sedgwick´s last blog ..Friday Flash – No Place Like Home

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Ali June 6, 2010 at 6:24 pm

Cheers, Icy! :-) For me, it’s not just about finding that middle ground as a one-off … it’s about checking my direction every once in a while and returning back to the middle where necessary. I tend to drift..!

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Inge June 4, 2010 at 4:11 pm

Interesting piece and food for thought. Regarding the big picture vs details issue: I find that I can do both, but feel like I am missing the in between. I don’t even have a name for what it is that I’m missing: maybe it is the switching between big picture and details that is hard, maybe it is a type of action that lies between big picture (for me this means: concepts, abstract ideas) and details. I think it might have to do with the process of getting a project completed. I’m not sure. Any ideas?

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Ali June 6, 2010 at 6:27 pm

Hmm, good point, Inge. I wonder what that middle space should be called? (”Medium zoom” or something…) I’ll think on that a bit more, but for now, maybe it’s like this:
- BIG PICTURE: Abstract idea, whole concept (e.g. a book) –>
breaks down to –> MEDIUM ZOOM: Discrete sections (e.g. chapters) –>
breaks down to –> DETAILS: The step-by-step actions/parts (e.g. paragraphs, each with one idea)

I’ve used writing examples because that’s the easiest way for me to relate these concepts to actualities, but feel free to mentally substitute something more appropriate for you!

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Haider June 4, 2010 at 9:53 pm

Hi Ali,

I’m loving this blog series! :D

I haven’t given “today vs tomorrow” much thought, so that’s something I need to look into and – more importantly – incorporate into my schedule.

I think balancing “developing skills versus executing tasks” is important, too. We often get caught up in getting things done that we forget to develop our own skills, so that we can do things more efficiently in the future. Some skills require conscious, focused effort to develop (even though they can be developed slowly without such attention). By investing some time to develop these skills, we can make our tasks much easier to manage.

How quickly do we manage our emails? And what can we do to get through our emails faster?

How do we approach a writing task? And what can we do to make the process easier?

How fast is our typing? And what can we do to improve our typing speed?

These are some areas where attention to our existing skills and determination to improve them can take us a long way.
Haider´s last blog ..Productivity Woes Over Google’s Pac-Man Game

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Ali June 6, 2010 at 6:29 pm

Excellent point about skills, Haider; I hadn’t worked that into the post explicitly. In “7 Habits of Highly Effective People”, Stephen Covey makes the point that we need to “sharpen the saw” … if you’re hacking away at a tree with a blunt saw, it’s going to take you ages.

In a similar way, spending a few minutes learning how to do something properly can save you an awful lot of time in the long run. (I remember when I started blogging and didn’t really understand how to use Wordpress — I formatted everything by writing HTML code, which wasn’t a very efficient way of doing things!)

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Dia June 4, 2010 at 10:55 pm

Thanks Ali, Balancing our life is very important, otherwise our life would be in chaos. I think once we have a plan, then we can take action to achieve our plan, so balancing between the two is crucial like you mentioned. In regards to the big picture vs little details, I find myself usually looking at the big picture more than the little details. I will have to make a balance between the two as both are important.
Dia´s last blog ..What should I do with my life?

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Ali June 6, 2010 at 6:29 pm

Good luck finding the right balance for you! I think we’re all a bit different — probably right-brainers are better at big picture and left-brainers better at details; it’s good to be comfortable, but also good to find enough balance to be effective.

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Julius June 6, 2010 at 11:53 pm

I can relate to what you said about focusing too much on little tasks while the more important work is waiting to be done.

To handle this situation, I personally create a mental schedule of what I would do in the coming day. Here I set a number of minutes for each task and I always dedicate a minute or two of rest between each task. This prevents me from burning out too quickly.
Julius´s last blog ..Web Accessibility Benefits Persons with Disabilities and … Who Else?

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Ali Hale June 7, 2010 at 3:23 pm

I find it’s particularly helpful to set a length of time for tasks like emails and other essentially bottomless things…
Ali Hale´s last blog ..Balancing Work and … Work

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Solo June 7, 2010 at 5:44 am

Hey, Ali,
This is great for finessing the details and organizing by step by step planning versus doing. I like your logical approach to balancing work/vs./lifegoals. I’ve written a piece on that elusive middle ground mentioned in your comments. . . I call it Noodling. Too often we are so scheduled, so ON TRACK with our LIFE and our GOALING, that the creative juicing process of life is neglected.

Noodling defined: http://solomiadivine.blogspot.com/2010/06/noodling.html
Solo´s last blog ..Noodling

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Ali June 7, 2010 at 3:27 pm

Ooh, nice term, “noodling”. I’m not sure that was the exact stage I was thinking of — I was in a less creative mindset there! — but I agree it’s a hugely important (and oft neglected) stage. I find walking helps when I’m stuck on a piece of fiction writing, or simply daydreaming.

(By the way, on the browser I’m using – Firefox – the font on your site is quite hard to read, it’s a sort of white highlighted blue monospaced font (Courier New or something) on top of a blue background. Just thought I’d mention that in case it’s giving anyone else eye-strain!)

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Solo June 11, 2010 at 3:57 am

Thanks for the observation about the font/background. I’ve changed it and it’s much better, thanks to your keen eye. Enjoying your blog:)
Solo´s last blog ..Chemically Motivated Selfishness

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Edward June 7, 2010 at 2:03 pm

I am afraid to be mistaken, but I believe that Planning verses Doing should actually be “Planning versUs Doing”
Edward´s last blog ..Lisa Kudrow – Piquant Flavor Of Friends

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Ali June 7, 2010 at 3:30 pm

How embarrassing! You’re quite right. I’ve fixed it; thanks for the heads-up.

(I considered silently fixing it and deleting your comment, but that’d be terribly sneaky ;-) )

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Laura Elliott July 4, 2010 at 2:26 am

Hi Ali

Another awesome post, I like the way you have presented the concept of balance – I can really relate as I’ve been working on a new blog and have found myself getting bogged down in the detail and planning. It’s refreshing for me to take a step back and think about the big picture and what actions I need to take. I’ve set myself a realistic of list of small tasks to complete this week.
Thank you

Laura

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Ali July 5, 2010 at 7:23 pm

Thanks! I have trouble keeping my lists realistic at times … breaking it down definitely helps prevent overwhelm. Good luck with the new blog!

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