I bet you’ve heard this one: “Do what you love, and the money will follow.”
Sounds good, it a tad glib. But is it true? If you love accounting, it might be. Most of us, thought, don’t have passions which translate straight into money in the bank. Have you ever asked yourself if I quit and do what I love, how will I pay the rent?
It’s a serious question. I get angry at the “gurus” of personal development who say that you should just do whatever you’re passionate about – you’ll make a living eventually. Many of us simply aren’t in a position to struggle along until we finally “make it”, or we don’t want to end up taking advantace of friends and relatives if things go sour:
My question is – what advice do you have on exit strategies / safety catches for someone who thinks they have a good idea but ultimately also needs to be able to pay a mortgage and buy food? Especially now, when it’s not like there are lots of jobs around to just step back into.
(Bob, in a comment)
Paying the rent is my problem. I don’t won’t to move back in permanently with my parents. I have the beginnings of ideas relating to church and fresh expressions, but whether they’ll come to anything is an interesting question.
Do those echo with you? Do you have a great idea, a particular passion, or a calling towards a certain service in life? And do you also want to look after yourself and your family?
You have got options. I’ll go through three (full-time day job, part-time day job, and working around your passion) and give some tips on how to make these work for you.
Work Full-Time, Squeeze Your Passion Round the Edges
This is the position where most us start. We’re in a full time job that we aren’t passionate about. (If we’re lucky, we don’t hate it.) Whatever our real passion, we squeeze it in around the edges of our job, into the evenings, the weekends, or lunch breaks and our commute. Our job feels like a cruel tax on our time, snatching away half our waking hours.
My passion was, and still is, writing. When I graduated from university and started working full-time, I thought I could fit in plenty of writing around a 9-5 job. I hadn’t thought through the commuting time, the fact that I’d need to cook and eat and shower and other such tasks, the tiredness after seven and a half hours in front of a computer screen…
Sadly, I’m sure that you’ve experienced the same frustrations. If your passion is something creative, it’s incredibly hard to find the energy for that while working full time. If you’re trying to build a business, it can feel as though it’ll take forever to get it off the ground.
If you’re currently in a day-job, try:
Giving your “best” time to yourself. Get experimental about this: if you struggle to get anything done in the evenings, try shifting things around. I was surprised (indeed, a bit horrified) to find that I was much better at getting my writing done when I got up at 5.45am and wrote before going to work. Sid Savara, even less of a morning person than me, reports something similar:
When I wake up, every day is a new day. I don’t have anything on my mind, and when I sleep it’s a chance to “reboot” my brain before I get started on my personal projects. As opposed to trying to switch gears after work, I get to immediately focus in on personal goals in the morning.
(Sid Savara, More Important Than Money – Paying Myself First With My Time, SidSavara.com)
Cutting down your outgoings. Can you cut your spending and save some of your salary? Keep a close eye on your spending for a couple of weeks – and see if there’s any areas where you can cut back without feeling like you’re missing out. You’ll be building up capital and a safety net – which is a huge help if you do end up quitting your day job (pdf link, right-click to save to your PC) – and you may well find you can manage fine on less money than you thought.
Work Part-Time, Give Full Days to Your Passion
The obvious next step, especially if you’ve cut down your outgoings, is to work less in your current job. Can you negotiate with your employer to reduce your salary by 20% and work a four-day week?
(I realise that for some of you, the answer there will be “no”.) It’s incredibly refreshing to be able to devote a whole day each week to your passion, and it can make your day job that bit more bearable.
I tried this in early 2008, to get my first blog going and to write more short stories. We were going through a quiet patch at work, too. I talked to my line manager who talked to my boss. The result was that I got a tentative agreement to take Tuesdays off.
Fast forward six weeks, and it didn’t work out quite like I’d hoped. For one thing, my blog was still very new and I was finding my feet. I wasn’t making money from it (which was fine – I didn’t need to as 80% of my salary would have covered my outgoings with a bit left over). The main problem was work-related: one Tuesday some problems arose in my absence, and my boss was not a happy bunny. At all. I offered to work Tuesdays again, and to take the time I’d had off out of my paid annual leave rather than as unpaid leave.
Tips for working part-time, then (other than avoiding working for my former boss…):
Protect your time fiercely. As soon as friends and relatives realise you have a “day off”, they’ll want you to meet up for coffee or lunch, or they’ll suggest all sorts of little jobs you could lend a hand with. If possible, keep the changes to your working week quiet!
Treat this as a trial run. I’ll admit I used to sleep in a bit on my Tuesdays, but I got up, got dressed, and sat down and worked each morning. Behave as though this is your full time job that brings your income – treat it seriously. This is also a good way to try out whether it really is your passion – or, at least, whether it’s a passion you want to have as a career.
Compromise – Work Around Your Passion
What I am saying is that passion isn’t magic. There are far too many starving artists in the world for the “do what you love” saying to hold any water. Not by itself, anyway.
You can dream all you like, but a career you love happens in the real world. And except for the occasional stroke of blind luck, success in the real world doesn’t come by waving a magic wand. It comes from trusty stand-bys like hard work, ability, and persistence.
If your passion isn’t a fast route to riches, can you do something similar but more lucrative? A couple of great resources for this are:
- Ten Ways to Translate Your Passion Into Additional Income – from Trent Hamm on The Simple Dollar. Give all of the ideas here some thought; there’s a good range.
- Jonathan Field’s Career Renegade book – reviewed here – Jonathan goes through a number of different routes that can turn your passion into something that makes money; such as teaching others, providing information, or creating communities.
I love writing fiction and blogging here on Aliventures. But neither of these pay me much, at the moment. Instead, I write for half-a-dozen or so large blogs which pay me per article. It’s work that I like, it pays very well per hour (I write fast and I’ve put my rates up
) and it gives me the freedom to spend the bulk of my working time on non-paying or not-yet-paying passions: my MA, my novel, Aliventures, and Church and family activities.
Blatant sales pitch alert! If you’re a writer-type and you’d like to pay the rent through blogging (and have plenty of time left over for your own projects), check out my Staff Blogging Course. It’s a step-by-step self-study guide, packed with real-life examples and templates to help you get going.
Tips for working around your passion:
Freelancing is easiest. If you’ve got a particular creative skill, you can find work as a freelancer. The most common areas are writing, design, and programming – but there are plenty of other options. Don’t worry that you’re not good enough: you only need to be better than the people you’re helping! (Dave Navarro has some great advice on this in step 2 of 7 Steps To Playing A Bigger Game)
Don’t get too “artist” about your work. I straddle two writing communities, which have at their extremes: copywriters who just care about paying the rent … and fiction-writers for whom it’s all about self expression. If you’re going to make a creative passion pay, you need to get business-like about it. Turn in good work; don’t try to be the next Shakespeare or da Vinci.
If you liked this post, you’ll enjoy:
- Reframing Work #1: Ditching Drudgery and the Conventional View of “Work”
- Reframing Work #2: Min Hours, Max Cash – Or Do What You Love?
- 10 Scary-but-Exciting Reasons to Work For Yourself – part one
- 10 Scary-but-Exciting Reasons to Work For Yourself – part two
I’d love to hear your own thoughts and stories on this topic. What are your passions? Do you want to make money from them, or do you just want to have the time and energy to enjoy them, outside your paying work? How have you balanced (or not!) the things you love doing with the need to earn a living? And if you’ve got any specific questions or problems you’d like me to tackle, just pop a note in the comments box below.




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Scott Young has just written a similar post on his site. [ http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2009/10/21/dont-quit-your-day-job/ ] He refers to Hugh MacLeod’s estimate that it takes about 24 months to figure out a business model. That’s a long time working on a passion if you have no other means to survive.
You give some impressive advice here, Ali. Especially your suggestion to work around a passion. Even something you are passionate about will result in work you’re not so keen on doing. Whether or not you’re on the road to riches, every day will have its fair share of tough, yet necessary, tasks.
And the more you work around a passion, the closer you’ll probably come to using the passion more the way you want to. Not guaranteed, but certainly a step in the right direction!
Love the topic, I’m in the unenviable (bizarre choice of words) of having earned too much money for too long and along with help of a rather impulsive property purchase prior to the recession amnow well and truly at the mercy of the corporate machine. I’ve been working at reducing my dependance on my pay check for the last 10 months and all in all while a long hard slog every passing month I find more ways to make my cash last that bit longer and have a few extra cents come in.
I have no real desire to earn obscene amounts from my creative pursuits, but the bills need to be paid. So while I’m not sure how my future will turn out exactly I think it’s important to have a goal and start accomodating it right away. The longer you leave it the harder it gets. If you find that you can’t bear the discomfort you’re probably not passionate enough. In the interim I’m just committing to stretch myself, I’ve pledged 2 hours of my normal sleep time (I can now survive a full work day on 3 hours sleep if needs be nowadays with some help from technology) to my creative pursuits each day and as much time as I can spare on the weekend. Besides all that nuts and bolts stuff, I just have a healthy dose of arrogance that tells me that if I keep at it, and keep treating it like a job my inner businessman will keep me heading in the general direction of up.
.-= Michael´s last blog ..Own your Failures, Take action for Magnificent Success =-.
Finally! Somebody that agrees with me. Thanks for this post Ali.
I can’t stand the phrase, “Do what you love and the money will follow.”
Tell me how you can make a living if you’re passionate about watching grass grow.
It’s good to be positive, but I think there’s difference between being positive and being practical.
.-= Tristan Lee´s last blog ..50 Random Moments to Value in Life =-.
I had always freelanced while working a regular job. It was never an issue, until…
My last job in the traditional workforce was at a local studio. After five years there (and loving it!) I was given my dream job – art director. I began having to lead meetings, lead others… which I had never done before. Though I never did one ounce of work for a client on company time, I did begin using client examples to help illustrate my direction at the studio. Soon after I found myself being called into question at every turn, facing one ridiculous talking-to after another by the owner of the company. Until I eventually gave my notice. That same day, human resources sent an email stating that employees with “outside business interests” would not be considered for leadership roles, and that putting your personal success ahead of the company’s would not be tolerated.
I have your staff blogging course Ali, and it’s great – but I’m having difficulty putting it into practice because of the full time job issue. I’ve written for various local publications for a while, but mostly for no pay, and so am trying to extract myself from that, plus trying to keep up some regular posts on my own blog – phew!
I want to give staff blogging a real go of it and don’t want to commit to something I can’t follow through on because I’m overwhelmed by work, and chores, and family commitments.
So after reading this post I’m even more convinced I need to go down the part-time route – but it might be a while before that’s possible.
.-= Milo´s last blog ..The Random Reading List – Tuesday 20th October 2009 =-.
As ever, Ali, this post is lucidly written and strikes an excellent balance between idealism and practicality. I too have had periods when I was able to reserve one day a week for writing – and I had great plans for all I would accomplish in that day. However, I found it very hard to disengage myself from the ‘normal’ world and tune into my creative side. I envy those writers who can turn it on and off like a switch: it takes me a while to get into the ‘zone’, but once there I write quickly. Also, I had a chuckle when you talked about other people failing to recognise that your ‘day off’ is actually a work day. My sister always rang me for a marathon ‘I said to him and he said to me’ resume of her week’s doings, because I wasn’t actually doing anything important, was I?! (In the end I stopped answering the phone, which is a technique I recommend if you’re trying to work at home). It is hard to avoid interruptions and distractions and treat your ‘you’ time as professionally justifiable. As writers we end up apologising for wanting solitude, wanting silence, wanting time – and wanting payment!
Wow – thank you for all the comments! I had a feeling this might be a popular topic to write about.
Martin, thanks for pointing me towards Scott’s post; I think his attitude is very much in tune with mine (and thus, of course, the RIGHT attitude
) I really agreed with him saying “For most people, they will be more successful and avoid the feelings of being completely overwhelmed by starting part-time.”
Michael, sounds like you’re in a tough situation, and I’m sorry to hear the recession’s hit you badly. (I’ve been lucky, it’s actually been quite a good time for freelancers, and I don’t own any property.) Well done on making the cash last longer each month: that’s really key, I think.
I’m concerned that you’re taking your creative time out of sleep time: I know a lot of people have to do this (I did myself, at one point), and I know some people do just fine on little sleep (not me!) … but do take care of your health. Ultimately, you’re your own most important resource!
Tristan, glad you agree with me! I get frustrated with some of the rather glib advice out there: it’s all very well if your passion is something easily sell-able, but it’s a bit trickier if all you really want to do is watch TV. Or watch grass grow. Plus lots of us have trouble even figuring out our passions, after doing time in the corporate world…
elblock, I’m so sorry to hear about your work situation, and well done you for staying strong and getting out. I didn’t mention in the post that the moment I became completely determined to quit was that day when I agreed I’d give up my Tuesdays off. My boss said to my line manager (in my hearing), words to the effect of “How can I run a company when Ali’s taking days off to write a novel”? The thing that bothered me most was that he sounded like he thought what I was doing was completely unimportant, even silly, and that the company should be everything to me.
I hope your company are kicking themselves now for losing you!
Milo, thanks for buying the Staff Blogging Course; I’m really glad you like it! I know exactly the feeling of trying to get started whilst working and doing other projects. Something which I did that helped when I started out was cut down from 5 posts/week on my own blog to 3 posts/week, to give me time for paid work. One of my current jobs requires just one post per month (www.thechangeblog.com) and I’ve often written once a fortnight. Editors may actually prefer to start you off on a low commitment, to see how things go. It could be worth asking about jobs and mentioning that you’re just looking to do one or two posts a month.
Lorna, thank you! (As an aside, I love the word “lucid” – I was told once as an undergrad that my essay was “lucid and sane”, which made me wonder a bit what the others were like…)
I find that disengaging from the world to work on fiction is hard. My best method at the moment on fiction days is to refuse to check emails or do anything asides from grab a giant mug of tea and some breakfast first thing … then I can get into the fiction without the real world crowding in on my.
It is so easy to end up apologising and letting people intrude on your time. When I worked 9-5, I was simply not available during the week, and I never felt apologetic about it. I’ve found that if I’m not seen to take my work seriously (ie. by writing when I’ve said I’m going to be writing), other people won’t take it seriously either. It helps a lot that I’m taking an MA, though, as most people seem to see that as a “justification” for spending time on fiction.
I think at least a bit of passion is a must if one wants to make it as a freelancer or run own business. Working for someone else on a job you don’t enjoy that much can be done, but if you’re relying on yourself to pay the rent, it’s probably not a good plan to start doing something you don’t want to. Then again, when you turn your passion into “job”, it might not be that much fun anymore and you’ll notice that you ain’t so passionate about it anymore after a while.
After reading the posts here for a while, I’m thinking it’s the passion for freedom that drives people off their 9-5. Again, I thank you for the inspiration Ali!
.-= Antti Kokkonen – Zemalf.com´s last blog ..Why Blog Commenting Is So Important? =-.
Your comment on “Protect your time fiercely. As soon as friends and relatives….” is all too true. As I’ve recently joined the free world, a lot of friend call me during the week to hang out, and laugh when I say I’m ‘working’…
You ‘think’ you could transfer your 50 hour work week into 50 hours of working for yourself, but it’s all about discipline, you’re not going to get out of bed if you’re not going to be in trouble for a sleep in*!
Nice post Ali.
*Slept in this morning….
.-= Andrew´s last blog ..10 Reasons You Shouldn’t Be At Work Today… =-.
Antti, I agree that working for yourself on something you don’t care about is a massive mistake. You need a certain level of passion just to have the motivation to get out of bed in the morning! Sometimes you can find something you enjoy that’s not perhaps your core passion; it can make you money, without jobifying your true creative time.
Andrew, maybe we should all form a support group for friends-of-freelancers — they could phone each other in the middle of the day.
(I slept in yesterday, but I think I needed it! It’s easy to forget that when you work for yourself, you end up packing a lot more in than when you’re in a typical office job…)
Thanks – good article and good title. “Do what you love and the money will follow” was never clear enough to me. I read Mark Silver’s “Ode to Diapers” the other day and got much clearer. http://www.heartofbusiness.com/ode-to-diapers/
For me, finding the people I want to work with, and figuring out what problems I can solve for them, is a much better approach. I think combining that idea with your clear reminder that one doesn’t have to make the change full-time or even fully-committed is important.
.-= Karilee´s last blog ..Are You Meant to Be a Manager? =-.
Thanks, Karilee! And thank you for the link to the Mark Silver article too: I’m totally with him.
Good luck finding your people and the problems that you can solve. You might like one of my previous posts: What To Do When Your Adventure Feels Like A Long Hard Slog … it’s from a similar viewpoint as Mark Silver’s piece (though there are no diapers in mine!)
Lots and lots of passionate surfers. Very few professional surfers.
Succeeding professionally at a passion requires a viable market.
Or a trust fund.
.-= Dave Doolin´s last blog ..I’ve Just Wasted $53 on Hosting and a Domain, s***, What Now? HELP!? =-.
Great point, Dave. Frankly, there are some passions which either can’t realistically be monetised, or which would lose their fun if you did try to monetise them. I’m convinced that people can have more than one passion — so the trick is finding the one that *does* have a market.