Turning Inspiration Into Action

by Ali on July 23, 2010

I’m back from nine unforgettable days in India, with my family (my parents, my brother and sister, and my fiancé Paul).

Our trip wasn’t just an exciting holiday. We were in Bengaluru (Bangalore) to see first-hand the work of Divya Shanthi – a small charity which has very strong links to our church. In particular, we were there for the dedication of their new baby home (which church members have been fundraising for):

Divya Shanthi Baby Home

The St Nicholas Baby Home (almost completed!)

And then we headed to Delhi and did some touristy things like visiting the Taj Mahal…

The Hales and Paul

From left - brother, Paul, me, dad, mum, sister.

I’ll be writing a bit about the trip itself, in this post and subsequent ones, but what I’m hoping you’ll take away from this piece are some tips on how to turn inspiration into action.

Inspiration Doesn’t Change Anything

I get excited easily. I throw myself into things enthusiastically – and I have a bit of a history of taking on lots of new projects and never really finishing things.

I think all six of us found ourselves inspired – and challenged – by seeing all the great work being done by Divya Shanthi. We hadn’t realised quite how much went on, or how dedicated the staff and volunteers are.

We saw the boarding home, for orphans or kids who’ve been abandoned. We saw the school, with fiven hundred kids who, in Divya Shanthi’s words, are “the poorest of the poor” – astonishingly lovely, sweet kids learning three different scripts and languages.

We saw the vocational centres, and the beautiful woodwork and textiles being made there.

We went out to villages where the poverty was even more obvious than in the slum areas of Bengalaru.

And I was struck by the very real, very obvious work being done, the difference being made. Children are being fed who’d otherwise be going hungry. Men and women are being helped into work. Teenagers are able to go to college because Divya Shanthi provides very affordable schooling.

I could look at my own life – my writing, my worries, my pre-occupations – and see it in a new perspective. Of course I already knew how lucky I am, how much I have, how grateful I should be. But this all brought it home to me in a new way.

And, like the rest of the family, I felt strongly pulled toward doing what I could to help. I was fired up and enthusiastic and keen … but there was so much obvious need that I didn’t know where to start.

In my experience, it’s pretty easy to get inspired. A life-changing trip, or a brilliant seminar, or a thought-provoking book, or simply a heart-felt conversation … whatever the exact cause, you’ve probably had the same experience. You feel that this is it, you see your life with a new clarity, and you’re eager to make changes.

It’s so easy, though, to just leave it there. That burst of inspiration doesn’t last for very long.

Our trip ended. I came home to a stomach bug, a couple of hundred emails, and a load of boxes to unpack and laundry to do.

When your seminar finishes, or when you close that great book, or when that conversation is just a memory … inspiration begins to ebb away too. Maybe you felt great for a bit, but the truth is, inspiration itself doesn’t change anything.

Action does.

Why We Get Stuck on Taking Action

When I’m inspired, I tend to have a pretty rosy picture in my head. I see myself doing all sorts of great things. In the first couple of days in Bengaluru, my head was full of thoughts about what I could do to help:

  • I could write blog posts. (Except I wasn’t sure what blogs to write on, or whether it would really make a difference.)
  • I could write content for their website. (Except I had no idea if that was what they wanted.)
  • I could go out there and spend weeks helping with … something. (Except I’m not sure what skills I’d bring, plus it’s not a realistic financial or practical possibility.)
  • I could write for newspapers or magazines. (Except that would take a lot of time, and I don’t know how effective it would be.)

…and so on, and so on.

At this stage, I often get stuck. I’m either paralysed between lots of options, and don’t have much idea what would really make a difference – or I jump head-first into loads of things and don’t make any real progress.

Anytime you’ve been inspired, you’ve probably experienced something similar. Maybe you were keen to do something – but you got overwhelmed by options. Or maybe you got carried away, started on the first thing which came to mind, and then rapidly lost momentum.

Thinking Small

It’s awesome to have grand visions and big dreams. These give us meaning, purpose and direction.

But when it comes to starting something new, it pays to think small.

However much I’d like to believe that I have the time and the other resources to make a massive difference for Divya Shanthi, I know that really:

  • I have a lot of other commitments in my life already
  • Having some enthused but woefully ignorant near-stranger jump in and try to “help” will be anything but useful!

So I tried to think small. I listened to what Vinay and Colleen, the directors of Divya Shanthi (and firm family friends) were telling us.

We all recognised that one of the biggest needs is for more sponsors – to help by paying the school fees for the families in the most difficult circumstances, and to pay the boarding costs for children in the hostel.

So what I want to do (and from talking to my parents, what they see as a priority too) is to find sponsors for the seventeen kids who need a sponsor and don’t yet have one.

This was something which met several criteria:

  • It would make a very real difference. If all the sponsorship money could be raised, that would be an extra £3,000 for the school – which operates on a yearly budget of (I think) £25,000. Plus, from speaking to the children ourselves, we realised just how much difference it could make to have a sponsor writing letters to them and being interested in their progress.
  • It is something which we are best positioned to do. Most of the current sponsors are from our church. A lot of newer church members don’t know much about Divya Shanthi, and many won’t have heard about the sponsorship programme.
  • It’s a concrete, small-ish goal. It’s something where progress will be obvious.

Almost any time you’re trying to take action, you can measure up your ideas against those three points. If you’re inspired to help with charity or voluntary work, it’s particularly crucial to figure out whether what you’re doing will really make a difference – and whether you’re in a good position to do it.

If you’re aiming for a more personal goal, like getting fitter, going for something small and measurable (”lose 20lbs”) is much better than a huge vague goal.

Start While You’re Still Inspired

I knew my inspiration wouldn’t last forever. So while we were in Bangaluru, Paul and I sat down and talked about sponsoring a child ourselves.

We knew we couldn’t afford a lot, but there were several kids who just needed school fees – £82 a year.

All of the kids had heart-rending stories, and all seemed in clear need, but we knew we couldn’t sponsor them all. We picked one little girl called Ramya, and told Vinay and Colleen that we’d like to sponsor her.

Ramya

Ramya

It’s a small action. But it’s one which it’d be easy to put off ever taking.

Next time you’re at a seminar, or reading a book, or having a deep conversation with a friend, and you’re feeling inspired, figure out one small action which you can take right away.

Perhaps it’s making a phone call, or donating some money, or signing up for a course, or any one of hundreds of things. What’s important is that you take those warm enthusiastic feelings and turn them into something concrete, which makes a real difference.

If you’d like to find out more about Divya Shanthi’s work, they have a website at DivyaShanthi.org and a Facebook page too. They’re a small charity with incredibly hard working and devoted staff, and they’re doing literally life-saving work – if you’re interested in making a donation, or sponsoring a child, you can get in touch with them at info@divyashanthi.org.

{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }

Carey July 23, 2010 at 1:51 pm

Why, you visited my city (Delhi) and didn’t inform any one!!!

Anyways, you are doing really good with the work and charity…

Yes travelling in general always gives me a fresh perspective on life and the work I do and sometimes even on family!!

Thanks for sharing your story!

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Ali July 26, 2010 at 5:42 pm

Sorry Carey! We were only in Delhi for a couple of days, but it was a great city to see. :-)

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Quint July 23, 2010 at 3:30 pm

I definitely agree with you. I get paralyzed by all of the options and then discouraged when I realize how little I can really do in the grand scheme of things. I try to focus on the reality that I can only do so much, and in doing that part I fulfill my responsibility. Others will have to come along and do their part as well.

A wall is built one brick at a time. Sometimes the best I can do is lay my brick or two and hope others will do the same.

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Ali July 26, 2010 at 5:43 pm

I find it incredibly hard sometimes to accept that (I’d like to be able to do everything!) but you’re right; we should each focus on playing our own part, and supporting other people in theirs.

Nice image with the wall, I’ll keep that one in mind.

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Hilary July 24, 2010 at 7:33 am

Hi Ali .. what an amazing adventure you’ve been on .. and by visiting you’ve connected hugely with the community. People are amazing at what they can do with so little, but help others at the same time ..

It’s great that you’re involved as a family .. I came across microcredit in South Africa in the 80s .. the Grameen Bank .. and the concept has spread .. but these small communities who all help themselves are an inspiration and should be to us, who have a lot more opportunities here ..

It will be so interesting to read more .. thanks for introducing them to us .. all the best – Hilary
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Farouk July 24, 2010 at 8:42 am

its really nice that you are trying to help people that way, very kind of you Ali
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Raam Dev July 24, 2010 at 9:21 am

Hey Ali,

What an inspiring post. Your story really resonated with a lot of what I experienced during my three months in India, except that I didn’t visit any charities — I was just being exposed to all the poverty and suffering every day. The experience changed my life around completely.

I really think we can all make small changes to our lives that will have a big impact on the rest of the world. With just a little effort, we can make a big difference.

The collaborative ebook project that I launched yesterday, Small Ways to Make a Big Difference (which, by the way, I’m so thankful you could be part of!), was a direct result of my experiences in India. I think there’s a lot of potential for more collaborative projects like that to collectively inspire change on a larger scale.
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Ali July 27, 2010 at 4:21 pm

Thanks!

Three months sounds like an amazing time. And yes, I was very moved by what we saw almost incidentally to the charity work (like young kids begging at traffic lights, and the level of squalor in some areas).

I didn’t know that Small Ways to Make a Big Difference came out of India: great that you could turn your own inspiration into such positive action!

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Tracy July 24, 2010 at 1:31 pm

Hi Ali,

You are an inspiration yourself – as you have been for some time. Your appeal for sponsors has come at a time for me when I am looking for ways to make my faith more of a world thing, so I shall definitely look into this. Thanks for all your inspiration and support!

Tracy x

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Ali July 27, 2010 at 4:26 pm

Thank you! :-) And for all yours, too. It’s great to see you with the blog up and running!

Just ask if you want to know a bit more about the child sponsorship: we’ve now got some details (including a photo) of the girl we’re sponsoring, and I’m hoping we’ll have more info about children awaiting sponsors prior to the service this coming Sunday.

Ali x

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Robin July 25, 2010 at 8:34 pm

Ali,
Good post, good advice and very kind of you!
robin

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Katie Brandt July 26, 2010 at 5:26 pm

Oh I have been in that place!! Overly excited and not sure where to start so I end up doing nothing :-) I have been working on a massive project for the last few months with a ton of moving parts and what helps me is first figuring out how to organize the information that is flying around in my head. Once I do that productivity comes much easier. Glad you had safe travels!

Katie

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Ali July 27, 2010 at 4:28 pm

Thanks! And yes, I definitely find that with having a lot of bits and pieces in my head but not necessarily a coherent plan… Sometimes it’s like finding the end of a ball of wool, before you can get started!

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Ricardo Bueno July 26, 2010 at 11:30 pm

Re: “figure out one small action which you can take right away.”

When I’m feeling inspired to start something new, I try and break things up into smaller actionable steps. This helps me get the momentum I need to keep going. There’s a great feeling when you accomplish one bit and then another and then another. That’s what builds to momentum to keep going.
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Ali July 30, 2010 at 7:11 pm

Definitely — I like to cross things off on a list, or write down what I’ve achieved. It really helps to see progress!

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Julius July 27, 2010 at 12:57 am

During a moment of inspiration, I write down an action plan and place it somewhere very accessible. This helps me focus on the actions I want to take so that I can make the inspired goal a reality
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Ali July 30, 2010 at 7:12 pm

Great tip, thanks! Keeping things nearby (and ideally in sight) is a great way to keep them in mind.

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Antonia July 30, 2010 at 1:39 am

Yay, you got to go to India! I’m headed back there in a couple of months and I can’t wait. I know what you mean about not knowing where to start. That’s such a paralyzing feeling, and the only way to kick it really is to do something, anything, without getting hung up on whether it’s the “right” or “best” thing to do. Love your concrete goal of finding sponsors for the kids: it’s specific and accomplishable (wait, that’s not a word…)

I really stopped by your blog just to say I LOVED your last newsletter. It inspired me to subscribe to Men With Pens (which I always thought was blokes-only too).
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Ali July 30, 2010 at 7:16 pm

Hope you have an amazing trip too! Your photos are going to be a good bit better than mine..! (I’ve been putting together a powerpoint to show our Church on Sunday, and my camera phone really doesn’t cut it…)

Yay, glad you liked the newsletter! It’s a funny thing with Men with Pens, isn’t it? It seems a strange reason for dismissing it when I look back — and James who runs the site is female anyway (she writes under a male pseudonym – you can read the whole story at http://www.copyblogger.com/james-chartrand-underpants/ …)

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Antonia July 31, 2010 at 1:17 am

Oh wow, thanks for sharing that…I had no idea James was a woman! How shocking that gender bias is still so strong in the writing world. Had no clue. Feeling naive now :)
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SATISH August 1, 2010 at 7:52 am

Very bad Ali,

You were in Bengaluru ?

I would have come to say hi to you. My home town is 200km from Bengaluru (Bangalore).
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Ali August 2, 2010 at 3:54 pm

Ah! I should probably have told everyone on the blog!

We were only there for a few days and had a very packed schedule, though.

Hoping I’ll get to visit Bengalaru again (and more of India) in a few years time…

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J.D. Meier August 1, 2010 at 9:43 pm

Very nice write up.

My manager was very good about distinguishing between outcomes and activities. Inspiration was good for kick-starting activities, but it didn’t necessarily lead to the right outcomes. Clarity is king.
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Ali August 2, 2010 at 3:55 pm

Good distinction – for me, that ties in with the difference between effectiveness (doing the right stuff) and efficiency (doing lots of stuff).

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